people talking about your confidence is a fat girl thing, isn’t it?
i really can’t tell you how many times i get this in my inbox:
i love your confidence! your confidence is sexy! i envy your confidence!
and a thin girl recently told me: confidence is the most attractive thing a women can carry though, and that is only something you can control.
but i have never seen a thin girl be told it’s their confidence that makes them attractive. when i get these messages it really reads like: fat girls aren’t supposed to be confident and comfortable in their skin but you are!! and that’s kind of gross honestly.
told yall
We all need to be aware of how we speak about and to each other. Words and language have power, specifically the power to effect, build up, or take down people.
Sometimes you, as an individual, might think something is a compliment, when in reality it is backhanded and a micro aggression that implies the opposite of what the words strung together mean in the dictionary.
